Hello Darlings,
Valentine’s Day is one occasion when you’re expected to be cheesy. I do not like the idea of expecting grand romantic gestures from your sweetheart because that is what the rest of the world is doing. However, I do think positively of Valentine’s Day as it presents an opportunity for couples to spend that extra time together and do something that is more “special”.
Romance…sure! But I prefer fun over lovey-dovey, overly-cheesy romance…
At 21 fun is more important than romance, but still Andrew and I spent Valentine’s weekend in Niagara Falls. Our weekend was filled with dinners overlooking the falls, gambling, strolling around (out and indoors) and of course partying 
Yes, Andrew and I are one of those couples that goes clubbing on our own just for the fun of it.
One of my favorite things was having our hotel connected…. restaurants, casino, bars, night club, and if you need it a wedding chapel (hahha…who needs to go to Vegas?). Not having to step a foot outside when a snow storm is happening is a great idea in winter.
Not having to step outside meant I could wear my new Mike & Chris jacket. I can’t wait for spring to wear my favorite ballerinas and leather jackets. I say the same thing in the summer, I can’t wait for winter to have chance to layer everything: P (I might be the only one who thinks that way but I do love winters).
I am wearing: Alexander Wang (from Bluefly); Mike& Chris Hooded “Paul” Leather Jacket (from Holt Renfrew Last Call); American Apparel Pin Dots Pantyhose (American Apparel Sherway); Tiffany&Co. Key Necklace (gift from Andrew); Diamond Studs(gift from parents); A.V. Max Cuff (from Bluefly); Davis by Ruthie Davis Swarovski embellished heels (from Revolve Forward).
Since it was Valentine’s Day, aka You- Must- Wear- Pink- or- Red- or- Hearts Day, I wore my ABSOLUTE favorite Alexander Wang dress. I’ve been on a mission to find a substitute for this dress but still no luck.
I just love love love the way it makes me feel like a sex kitten— so embarrassed for using this phrase, but I can’t think of another. Forgive me for being so lame: P
I paired my dress with American Apparel polka-dot tights, which were not worth my $40. The color is not even and it took a lot of adjusting to make them seem normal. I would return them, but they have no refund policy on hosiery. I am used to spending lots of money on great hosiery, as it is one of those “my look” things and I want my hosiery to be smooth and perfect! The only thing that I do like about my American Apparel tights is they are thick. But spare yourself the frustration and go for another pair. Meanwhile, I will continue to torture myself with them until they finally rip. For $40, I might as well wear them to university. My hosiery does not last a whole day there. This is also a reason I carry around another pair.
TIP: If you’re wearing thin pantyhose bring a spare in case they rip. This is especially the case when you’re going out!
Well, I am going to spare you more ranting… as I must fetch myself another double espresso and go back to studying. Wish me luck, hopefully I will come out happy and smiling, because right now I am a total nut case: P So please bare with me, it takes me much longer to respond to comments/e-mails during such times!!!
Wishing Everyone a Lovely Day!!!
With Love…
Marta
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You look so pretty! Your makeup is gorgeous
Niagara Falls in winter is beautiful! I went there as part of my travels. Its was the coldest I was ever on trip but a real experience. Even went up the tower and saw the entire niagara falls from way up high
I idid however find the lights and wildly decorated venues ect slightly garish and tacky but it is a gambling area.
Hi Ella,
I haven’t gone up on the tower, I am terrified of the heights. My favorite restaurant in Niagara would have to be the Keg…they have awesome stakes and I love stake
I’m glad you had fun at Niagara falls! It’s funny because I was there this weekend too, with my family and boyfriend. I just read your comment above about going to the Keg’s, we went there for dinner too haha. What a coincidence
Anyway, I absolutely adore your outfit as usual, I was really looking forward to seeing you wear your Mike & Chris jacket so this post actually made me very happy! Good luck with your exams and assignments!
Hi darling! I agree, I love your make-up and you look lovely as always. Glad you had a fun weekend! And how cool that the hotel is connected to everything from the inside… awesome idea
Dear Marta, I especially like the way your (indeed Stunning !!!) Dress ideally matches your skin complexion, while (exquisitely) creating such a “lingerie worn as a classical finery” illusion, AND the way your Dark leather jacket softly instil an electrifying twist on it !!!
à Bientôt, Antoine
Thats so lovely! I hope you had a wonderful time!
the jacket with the dress looks so beautiful!
you look stunning! and i wish i could find a dress as gorgeous as yours- it’s so timeless, but fun and playful at the same time. anyway, i agree with you about not having your significant other do something over the top mushy gushy gesture for valentine’s day. my boyfriend and i took a day trip =)
Good luck with all your studies! I can see why you love that Wang dress. I have some pieces by him and it was love at first sight. Thanks for the tip about the AA dot hosiery. I almost bought some, but I had this feeling about the hosiery. I hate thin, fragile tights! xo
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There’s nothing wrong with cheesy-ness. It seems like you have a great life with great people, but some other are really hustling right now. And in that hustle sometimes there just isn’t time to show people that you love them. So Valentine’s Day is for those people…. candy, cards, and flowers are cheesy. They’re lovely when given with true meaning.
Get over it.
Hi Doutzen,
I am talking about cheesy when it is done out of expectation and it is not necessarily genuine but rather generic. I do not believe that a person needs to wait until Valentine’s day to show those feelings an this is not something that I need to get over, it is something that I felt for a long time. I do not mean to attack anyone, but I do believe that I have the right to express my opinion… so please do no feel offended and if I did offend you I apologize.I will always share my honest opinion on this blog and not the one that is socialy expected and accepted.
P.S. I do appreciate your honesty and always encourage it
So for that I must thank you!
Once again, I do apologize if I’ve offended you.
You look lovely! I love your hair!
and thanks for the heads up on AA hosiery, I now know to stay away from it!
you are so obnoxious and full of yourself. that dress is beyond trampy which is hilarious because you claim to be sooooo classy.
Hi Ralphie,
Thank you, I’ve never claimed to be classy and if I am obnoxious you’re more than welcome not to read this blog. If you consider this comment classy then my dress can be as trampy as it gets.
P.S. thanks for taking the time to comment!
Have a wonderful day!
THATS trampy? Omg are you a mormon?! It’s totally okay if you are. I don’t have a problem with it, just wondering???
Marta, you look absolutely stunning!! Your look is simply perfect.
I love Valentine’s Day with a passion, but I very much agree that love should not be shown only on this day. I really dislike how our consumerist culture brainwashes people to think that way. Red is my favourite colour, and pink a close second… but seeing it everywhere in the weeks leading up to Valentine’s Day can really put me off. Love is not made up of reds and pinks.
I couldn’t help noticing ralphie’s comment. I am absolutely not siding with him/her, but when my beau saw me wearing that dress, he actually did tell me that he felt that I was showing a little too much cleavage. Now, I chalk that up to the fact that my bosom is a bit on the heavy side for my height… (5 ft. 3 and 1/2 in.) I’ve had people asking me before if I had a boob job done, which was very weird. Now, I’m very much aware that I can’t get away with a lot on top because of that. One dress may look trampy on someone, but it may look classy and elegant on someone else. I think ralphie ought to realise that everyone has different standards when it comes to dressing. Remember ages ago when our great-great-grandmothers thought showing ankles were indecent? We might not get along very well with them if we were to meet today…
As for you being obnoxious, I simply cannot see that.
Have a lovely evening, Marta -and thank you for your sweet comment on my blog!
P.S. I hope this post made sense. I had a day full of verbal, spatial and arithmetic exams. I’m a bit ‘gone with the wind’… lol
yeah, valentines day just doesn’t do it for me…the hubby and i ate a big breakfast in our pj’s…but that was about it. not a big deal, loving someone should be a daily thing…but i can see how it’s fun to play it up, i dig it.
omg, you are fabulous!! the outfit is perfection and ralphie, which first off sounds like a fat kid’s name, must be really hyped up on the olympics or illegal drugs because there is nothing even remotely skanky about this outfit. tool. you look unbelievable, that dress is to die for!
I hope you don’t think I’m ‘cutting in’ or anything.. though I probably am, but rudeness is not my intention. I just have to say this: I really disagree with making personal and mean-spirited comments about someone’s name just because they said something rude or disagreeable to you. Name calling never gets one’s point across and only leaves room for more negativity.
no, not at all, you are absolutely entitled to your opinion. i definitely got a bit caddy, but people who are flat out rude and not in any way constructive deserve to be treated with the same disrespect. that’s totally the feisty italian in me. i’m sure ralphie is not a fat kid, nor on drugs, but maybe they need to learn to speak their opinions in fuller terms. believe it or not, i am trying to learn restraint, i have a hard time not saying exactly what i feel, but knowing i bothered someone i will try and leave the sarcasm to my own blog.
I have that same Alexander Wang dress, and I wore it to a wedding in the summer. An old lady (and I mean in her 70′s) came up to be and said she thought it was “lovely”.
So… HA!
Hi Jessie,
That’s so sweet of what old lady… I think that the dress is lovely as well
A dress with a big cross across your boobs… mmmm trying to draw attention to your chest much. While I agree that Ralphie was rude, that is a fair assesment to say your dress was a little on the revealing side.
Hi Stephanie,
I think that you’re entitled to your opinion and appreciate your input, but I still love that dress despite the negative opinion.
Thank you for your comment.
marta - one word for you —> HATERS !!!
dont even waste your time typing back a reply to these haters.. no point of saying anything to them.. u look great and the dress is fab! if they read ur blog more closely they would see your not a revealing person ur a stylish one. screw the haters!
Hi Melissa,
Awww…that is so nice of you
And although probably true, I will always reply to my readers because they are taking their time. Even if the comment is negative and hurtful, I think that the least I can do is be polite in return as they did spend their time bothering to comment. I believe in good manners and karma
But thank you so much for the support, it is readers like you that make every negative comment worth while. Along the way of blogging I have met so many wonderful people even if once in a while one has to endure negativity it is worth it.
Have a wonderful weekend.
Sounds like you had an amazing time! I have always wanted to go to Niagra Falls!
Love that dress!